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You say that "now especially I want us to enjoy our 'last times' together," This may be an unrealistic expectation, but certainly you should try and see if you can turn the relationship around.
unfortunatly I do not have an answer but the question really touched a nerve because I am in the same position.
My mum is my mum and I am surposed to love her and I do and god forbid when she dies I will be devestated but I hate her with a vengeance,she is a real nasty piece of work and her feeling is that she has a daughter an you only have a daughter to look after you in old age that is fine if the mother daughter relationship is good but if no matter what you do is not good enough how can you deal with the hate I also have issues with my mom.
My mother is very sweet when you talk to her but she has absolutely no interest in talking about anyone but herself. She acts like a two year old and wants to be the center of attention at all times. No matter how many times I tell her I don't want her shoving her beliefs down my throat, it falls on deaf ears.
I have had many nasty confrontations with her and have asked her to keep her opinions to herself and to please respect my wishes. She is extremely lazy, very over weight thus has many health issues because of it.
I love and respect her very much, but I am ashamed to say, I don't like my mother.
Does anyone else have this problem and if so, how do you deal with it?
For example, you do not need to answer the phone when she calls.
You do not need to defend your self when she critiques you.
She is not verbally abusive but extremely controlling.
I am also in my fifties with grown children and a grandchild.
The sister left it all to me with an understanding that I would try to help mother -- just mother.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating